First you get the soldier, then you get the Tricare, then you get the Charger! We all face the daunting battle of who has it harder. Does a SAH parrent or a working parent face more struggles? Women especially, will tear each other apart on a social media post over this topic. Well, we are not falling into that trap today, but unless you have been both, you really do not have a say. In the military world, we have a term for any unemployed spouse. You are either a dependo or a dependa. You cannot just be any unemployed spouse. There are certain characteristics you must have. We begin with a special dependo. Let us just call him loving E4. Click your choice of the links below for this week’s episode. Be sure to subscribe to stay up to date on all the hot mess f$ckery. Leave a comment with your dependa/o experiences. Names will remain anonymous of course. You can always email us at [email protected].